Dory
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May 29, 2006 23:29:19 GMT
Post by Dory on May 29, 2006 23:29:19 GMT
woo *wiggles* go me ;D heh
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†.Va¢hE.†
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...I'm not happy with this...
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May 29, 2006 23:31:28 GMT
Post by †.Va¢hE.† on May 29, 2006 23:31:28 GMT
hehe... ;D It's what I think.... I'm watching the video of the song you have been listening...
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May 29, 2006 23:35:52 GMT
Post by Dory on May 29, 2006 23:35:52 GMT
lol don't get addicted to it...it gets you before you know it ;D heh
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†.Va¢hE.†
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May 29, 2006 23:38:35 GMT
Post by †.Va¢hE.† on May 29, 2006 23:38:35 GMT
well....I liked the song!!! ;D
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Jun 2, 2006 16:43:01 GMT
Post by pepsi on Jun 2, 2006 16:43:01 GMT
Show your pix everybody! Michelle
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Jun 2, 2006 16:49:57 GMT
Post by pepsi on Jun 2, 2006 16:49:57 GMT
Guys I saw today Oprah Winfrey Show and there was a girl Nikki... she had exactly the same problem as I do... same... shame her self, she had tryed to kill herself a couple of times., she was telling her self all the time she was fat,ugly.... and that she didn't know that she was pretty (she is really gorgeous) and that she thought that people didn't believe her what she was saying ... This is exactly the same problem as I have... (I'd tears in my eyes while the broadcast)... Michelle
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Jun 2, 2006 16:55:58 GMT
Post by †.Va¢hE.† on Jun 2, 2006 16:55:58 GMT
yeah...you definitely have the same problem....because you're gorgeous and you can't see it!!!! there're a lot of girls who has the same problem.....it's sad well....I must admit I have the same too...but the difference is that I don't take too much care about it (I did it before...) trust in yourself is something you'll learn to do with the time....
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Caitlin
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So if he's given half the chance - will he sink or swim?
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Jun 3, 2006 8:46:11 GMT
Post by Caitlin on Jun 3, 2006 8:46:11 GMT
its a typical young woman thing to have doubts about your image, i've experienced them too - pretty much every female has! i had lots of spots on my face, i went through a slight weight problem, just simple, normal things.
You just have to remember that no matter who you are, you are so special and nothing in the world should make you think otherwise! we're all beautiful!
wow that was very deep lol!
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Jun 3, 2006 15:29:47 GMT
Post by pepsi on Jun 3, 2006 15:29:47 GMT
Ok... every one is beautiful but that's what I'm talkin' about everytime... I'm trying to tell myself i'm beautiful but my feelin' of confidence is not comin' back... (I don't know why, I still lookin' sad and empty) Nikki has exactly the same she is trying ... it's not work out Thnx Caitlin' for the deeply respons...
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Jun 3, 2006 16:31:23 GMT
Post by †.Va¢hE.† on Jun 3, 2006 16:31:23 GMT
Caitlin....that was really wise!!!!! ;D *applauses * and Michelle....your problem is gonna finish one day....you just have to be strong...the world is always trying to get you down (to all of us)...you have to show to the world you won't get down....NEVER!!!!!! ;D lots of love!!!
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Jun 4, 2006 0:09:40 GMT
Post by Dory on Jun 4, 2006 0:09:40 GMT
believe me i know this problem so well....but i dont keep bringing it up in front of everyone for attention...i keep it to myself...its just my way of dealing...
only difference is...from what ive seen of you michelle, you are the same as one of my best friends (plus you have the same name as her), keep saying over and over that you thing you're not pretty and want validation from everyone, yet when you get it you still won't or can't believe it...its taken me neally 6 years to drill it into my mich that she is beautiful and it shouldnt matter what others think anyway....and to be honest i got sick of her whinging because she obviously knew how to use what she had (put it this way, she always has everyone one including girls staring at her with their chin on the floor and tongue out and she dances FOR them) and as i was saying, from what ive seen of you, you are pretty and you know you are...if you don't you should. whereas i on the other hand, know i'm not...you havent seen me properly (believe me on that...digital cameras and photoshop do help some, as well as knowing how to hide my faults in pictures...ive been doing it all my life)...i just dont complain about my faults and focus on the good...for example, whenever having a pic taken, always pose in a way i know is my better side...*shrugs*
i dont know what to say really...i'm just sick of validating people who keep putting themselves down all the time...ive been doing it myself for years...hoping to get people to say 'no youre not, you know you're beautiful shut up', but ive also had to be the one saying it to someone else, so i know how annoying it is to be on both sides....
the sooner the world and the people in it, can accept that we're all different in equally different and good ways, the better.
*shuts up*
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Jun 4, 2006 15:44:40 GMT
Post by pepsi on Jun 4, 2006 15:44:40 GMT
Yes... u right... I think people think that I want attention... but If I'm too long outside then I've got the feelin' to cry... and then I'm feel more stupid... I don't want attention it's just ... difficult to forget it... My sister told me 'yeah, right and I'm the Queen of holland, you just have to forget it'. But she don't know what my feelins are ... no body understand me ... P.s. Dory you should talk about it... because it's a serious problem...
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Dory
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Jun 4, 2006 15:46:57 GMT
Post by Dory on Jun 4, 2006 15:46:57 GMT
nah, ive talked about it and it just makes it worse....
the way i deal with it works for me so i'm sticking with it lol
so i spose you jut have to deal with it the way it works for you...*shrugs* and you will find a way..believe me... ive had 21 years experience with this...
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Jun 4, 2006 15:54:13 GMT
Post by pepsi on Jun 4, 2006 15:54:13 GMT
ok
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Caitlin
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Jun 6, 2006 10:32:50 GMT
Post by Caitlin on Jun 6, 2006 10:32:50 GMT
girls we are all beautiful and special just as we are!!!
thanks for the compliments guys! *takes a bow* lol
its a common problem with girls, we all just hav to "Keep on movin" ... ooh i see a song in there somewhere! lol
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